Budgeting

Most year-end financial checklists are written for people who have already won — maxing every account, holding a taxable brokerage, running a business, and executing Roth conversions with surgical precision. This one is for the $75,000 earner who's still building: checking whether the 401k got the employer match, catching the FSA before it disappears, deciding if the Roth IRA contribution deadline matters for this year, and understanding which of these December 31 deadlines are hard stops versus which ones can wait until April. There are seven moves worth checking before the year ends. Some of them take five minutes. One of them expires at midnight on December 31.

A strict 50/50 split of a $3,200/month household between a partner earning $85,000 and one earning $30,000 means the lower earner pays 72% of their take-home income on joint expenses, leaving $350/month for everything else. The higher earner pays 31% of take-home and retains $3,000/month. That's not equal — it just looks equal on the surface. There are three systems couples use to split finances with a significant income gap, and only one of them creates genuine parity in how much financial pressure each person feels. Here's the math on each approach, plus the system most financial therapists actually recommend.

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